I took some time thinking about it as I knew I was taking an important decision in life. I knew that I had come to the cross-roads in my life and I would have to choose a path. Whichever the path I knew I would be losing something.
I know that during my life I will get to know women that I will admire and desire, and love, but will never have. At least won’t have in any lasting meaningful way because they want different things.
Take a decision early. Poliamory is not something you can snap in and out of quickly. It is a lifestyle that takes time building and takes energy maintaining. It will also filter the number of people that could possibly get involved with you to less than half of the general population. Furthermore, polyamorous relationships are more fluid and people tend to come in and get out of it in a fluid and dynamic way in a state of constant renewal.
So if a woman you really like will not agree to enter, or will not stay long in a polyamorous relationship, don’t be surprised or upset. Make her your friend, and be sure that there will be someone else just as great down your path.
