With your interests in mind, check all social networks, dating web sites, professional listings, and any other social resource you can find online that serves the purpose of connecting people with the same interests as yours. Very specialized sites are great, but even if you use them you should also participate in at least one other social network and one for business/connection purposes.
I don’t use eHarmony.com or any other dating web site intensely geared towards monogamous relationships, but maybe you should. Dating web sites for alternative lifestyles are the best for me. But even regular dating web sites are fine as long as you post on your profile a conspicuous disclaimer telling the truth.
Even on dating sites where non-monogamous relationships are common or expected I like to say this:
“The fact that I am here looking for women doesn’t mean I don’t have any. So I am in no hurry and will focus on quality rather than quantity.”
Here are some of the web sites I used in the past and/or present:
SeekingArrangement.com
FetLife.com
I also use some social networks:
FaceBook.com
ASmallWorld.net
CouchSurfing.org
