Khaos Theory

I can’t suggest any learning path other than my own. I can look back and see the lessons I learned, the mistakes I made, and the education I gathered and I can draw some suggestions from that. Please take it for what it is worth: A suggestion drawn from my personal experience.

I read a lot! Even when I didnt have any money to buy books I used to visit public libraries and read anything that could show me how to understand people, psychology, anthropology, history, philosophy.

I went to swingers clubs and kinky clubs and talked to people. I had the courage to ask those that were in those lifestyles for a long time for advice. I listened and observed.

But most important of all, I practiced! When the opportunity came to be in relationships with interesting women, who were open-minded, adventurous, and curious like me I went straight to the point and told them I wanted to learn and experienced everything I could, and asked them to join me on that discovery. When you tell that honestly, open your heart and show that you really want to become a better lover, a better friend, and a better man, what woman would refuse to play along?