The best way is to actively connect with them one way or another. My favorite place for that is the Internet. I post my profile online on dating web sites and social networks, I participate in events and parties, and I join clubs that attract people with similar interests.
You can also say that I don’t look for people, I just expose myself conspicuously enough so that people find me. That is a valid way to describe it. I don’t find anyone: They find me.
