The importance of rapport
by Khaos on Jan.31, 2009, under On being dominant, Rapport
The way I live and love requires a lot of trust. When was the last time you put your safety in the hands of someone else? When was the last time you did it while at the most fragile moments when you are loving, with your guard down, totally vulnerable?
I never have to demand ritual behavior by a woman. She responds to me out of the want of pleasing me. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. I understand the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violate the trust given to me.
I am always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. I am patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust in me grows, so will the intensity of our relationship.
Creating and keeping rapport is in the center of it all. Escalating into higher levels of trust and compliance is the next thing.
