One can only learn by deliberately seeking knowledge and practice, instead of waiting to figure it our with time. Seduction, sensuality, and relationships are not things you should learn by trial and error. You also can’t develop it very much naturally. Many people say “I like to have my relationships develop naturally” and they are usually the ones working very hard all the time, trying to fix and manage their relationships!
I constantly identify aspects I want to develop in my life, then I read about them, find ways to improve them, and practice a new way to live and handle that part of my life.
My ways of persuading and attracting people are uncommon, but effective. I didn’t learn them reading magazines or going to college for years. They come to be from years of experience negotiating, persuading, interviewing, and studying with masters of influence: writers, investigators, salesmen, politicians, magicians, public speakers, pick up artists, street crooks, hypnotists, hustlers. They all have one thing in common: If they don’t persuade they starve.
