Comments on: Training a Dom

By: Khaos

Khaos — Sat, 12 Nov 2011 07:06:48 +0000

Read about it here and elsewhere. Talk (in person) to other Doms and talk to their subs as well. The more you read and listen the more you will be able to answer your question. I can’t tell you much without knowing you guys and without knowing the specific dynamics that develop between the two of you.

By: ThirteenPoints

ThirteenPoints — Sat, 03 Sep 2011 05:03:40 +0000

As a new Dom, I would appreciate a few tips for things to do. At the moment, I am training my sub to complete little tasks that I assign her. Meanwhile, I’m learning how to tie my sub up (God bless the Knotty Boys!) but once I have my sub tied up, I have little more to do than proceed to bite, lick, kiss and suck my way our orgasms. I have enough variety to last me a while, but I think I’m going to run out quite soon. Could you share some tips on what else I could be doing?

By: Sovereign11

Sovereign11 — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 16:35:05 +0000

A big part of being a Dom is listening and observing. The reaction I get from her when I apply my touch dictates (at least in part) the intensity level of my ministrations. Based on the information I have about her and what we are hoping to accomplish over the longer term, I will vary my approach, the techniques I will use, and the scenes I design. I like to have her write for me on a regular basis so that I may coax out her fantasies and inhibitions and better understand her needs.
Most Doms I know enjoy being just that, sexually dominant. We learn to tie knots and make shackles and equipment. We share stories of mindfucks and the expressions on the faces of our angels. We watch each other and discuss the nuances of sexually tormenting our hot little sluts, sometimes while they sit at out feet. Good Doms watch and learn, and undrstand the needs of their precious subs often before the subbies know themselves. That is part of the job.