http://khaostheory.com/2009/04/13/training-a-dom/ on attraction, sensuality, and transformation Sun, 04 Jul 2010 05:02:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://khaostheory.com/2009/04/13/training-a-dom/comment-page-1/#comment-9 Sovereign11 Tue, 11 Aug 2009 16:35:05 +0000 http://khaostheory.com/?p=605#comment-9 A big part of being a Dom is listening and observing. The reaction I get from her when I apply my touch dictates (at least in part) the intensity level of my ministrations. Based on the information I have about her and what we are hoping to accomplish over the longer term, I will vary my approach, the techniques I will use, and the scenes I design. I like to have her write for me on a regular basis so that I may coax out her fantasies and inhibitions and better understand her needs. Most Doms I know enjoy being just that, sexually dominant. We learn to tie knots and make shackles and equipment. We share stories of mindfucks and the expressions on the faces of our angels. We watch each other and discuss the nuances of sexually tormenting our hot little sluts, sometimes while they sit at out feet. Good Doms watch and learn, and undrstand the needs of their precious subs often before the subbies know themselves. That is part of the job. A big part of being a Dom is listening and observing. The reaction I get from her when I apply my touch dictates (at least in part) the intensity level of my ministrations. Based on the information I have about her and what we are hoping to accomplish over the longer term, I will vary my approach, the techniques I will use, and the scenes I design. I like to have her write for me on a regular basis so that I may coax out her fantasies and inhibitions and better understand her needs.
Most Doms I know enjoy being just that, sexually dominant. We learn to tie knots and make shackles and equipment. We share stories of mindfucks and the expressions on the faces of our angels. We watch each other and discuss the nuances of sexually tormenting our hot little sluts, sometimes while they sit at out feet. Good Doms watch and learn, and undrstand the needs of their precious subs often before the subbies know themselves. That is part of the job.

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