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		<title>How I became an expert</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/09/20/when-i-became-an-expert/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2011 08:33:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That is something that happens backwards. First I learned a lot of &#8220;stuff&#8221;: Techniques, methods, solutions and protocols. I thought I was very skillful, but the most important was still missing. As I met women that were more experienced, more advanced, and more sensual than I ever seen before, that opened my eyes to a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fear as a limitation</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/09/09/fear-as-a-limitation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Sep 2011 17:23:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fear can prevent someone from moving forward or from trying certain sexual acts. Those fears usually come from unfamiliarity or inexperience, or from bad experiences from the past, or from bad associations that came from watching, reading, or being told that some act is dangerous, painful, unhealthy, demeaning, or humiliating. Those fears commonly cause some [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Steven Pinker &#8211; The Genius of Charles Darwin</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/12/14/steven-pinker-the-genius-of-charles-darwin/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2010 05:11:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tell your friends:]]></description>
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		<title>Steven Pinker talks about language</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/12/13/steven-pinker-talks-about-language/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2010 03:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Domination]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Tell your friends:]]></description>
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		<title>Focus and simplicity</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/11/19/1115/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2010 20:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Social Tactics]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If Bruce Lee was to fight someone for real, and he did it many times, we wouldn&#8217;t show all the hundreds of moves and techniques he knew. He would just use the exact necessary move to finish the fight as fast as possible. In the movies he did very elaborate moves and looked really good [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Shortcut to self-approval</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/11/17/shortcut-to-self-approval/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2010 03:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is one very effective shortcut to learn to approve of yourself is to approve of others. Pay attention to what others do and when you see effort, dedication, elegance, or any other great qualities in someone&#8217;s self, or someone&#8217;s work, point at it and tell them how much you appreciate it. When you give [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It is not a job interview</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/02/08/it-is-not-a-job-interview/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 20:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t let your conversations turn into job interviews. Don&#8217;t ask questions about family, her neighborhood, her school, family, career, or the weather. Those subjects are boring and will show that you are not creative and interesting. Every time that she asks you something about family, your neighborhood, your school, family, career, or the weather, use [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Know her name</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/01/10/know-her-name/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 20:19:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Remember her name, when it matters It is a basic rule of good manners to ask for and remember people&#8217;s names. From Dale Carnegie to telemarketers, everyone knows and repeats your name several times during the conversation. However&#8230; When you are introduced to a large group, make things easy for yourself. First of all, if [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A free and adventurous woman</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/22/a-free-and-adventurous-woman/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 02:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[On being dominant]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If she is already mature and liberated, happily exploring her sensuality, she will appreciate having a partner that is equally open-minded and sophisticated. If she is not quite there yet I can be the person that she can feel comfortable with and trust deeply enough to experiment and not feel judged or inadequate. I learned [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Having a curious attitude</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/14/having-a-curious-attitude/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/14/having-a-curious-attitude/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2009 05:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[One can only learn by deliberately seeking knowledge and practice, instead of waiting to figure it our with time. Seduction, sensuality, and relationships are not things you should learn by trial and error. You also can&#8217;t develop it very much naturally. Many people say &#8220;I like to have my relationships develop naturally&#8221; and they are [...]]]></description>
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