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		<title>How I became an expert</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/09/20/when-i-became-an-expert/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2011 08:33:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[On being dominant]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[That is something that happens backwards. First I learned a lot of &#8220;stuff&#8221;: Techniques, methods, solutions and protocols. I thought I was very skillful, but the most important was still missing. As I met women that were more experienced, more advanced, and more sensual than I ever seen before, that opened my eyes to a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fear as a limitation</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/09/09/fear-as-a-limitation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Sep 2011 17:23:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fear can prevent someone from moving forward or from trying certain sexual acts. Those fears usually come from unfamiliarity or inexperience, or from bad experiences from the past, or from bad associations that came from watching, reading, or being told that some act is dangerous, painful, unhealthy, demeaning, or humiliating. Those fears commonly cause some [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Shortcut to self-approval</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/11/17/shortcut-to-self-approval/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2010 03:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Rapport]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is one very effective shortcut to learn to approve of yourself is to approve of others. Pay attention to what others do and when you see effort, dedication, elegance, or any other great qualities in someone&#8217;s self, or someone&#8217;s work, point at it and tell them how much you appreciate it. When you give [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It is not a job interview</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/02/08/it-is-not-a-job-interview/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 20:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Rapport]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Social Tactics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t let your conversations turn into job interviews. Don&#8217;t ask questions about family, her neighborhood, her school, family, career, or the weather. Those subjects are boring and will show that you are not creative and interesting. Every time that she asks you something about family, your neighborhood, your school, family, career, or the weather, use [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Know her name</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/01/10/know-her-name/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 20:19:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Rapport]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Remember her name, when it matters It is a basic rule of good manners to ask for and remember people&#8217;s names. From Dale Carnegie to telemarketers, everyone knows and repeats your name several times during the conversation. However&#8230; When you are introduced to a large group, make things easy for yourself. First of all, if [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A free and adventurous woman</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/22/a-free-and-adventurous-woman/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/22/a-free-and-adventurous-woman/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 02:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[If she is already mature and liberated, happily exploring her sensuality, she will appreciate having a partner that is equally open-minded and sophisticated. If she is not quite there yet I can be the person that she can feel comfortable with and trust deeply enough to experiment and not feel judged or inadequate. I learned [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trust and deep connections</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/08/trust-and-deep-connections/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 03:56:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I appreciate a deeper level of sensual connection. An intense sensual awakening that only happens when lovers trust each other and are engaged in discovering what pleasures them the most, and what pleasures their lover. Every change brings fear and uncertainty. The curiosity and desire for better life and experience is often suppressed by the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why not use NLP to build rapport faster?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/05/why-not-use-nlp-to-build-rapport-faster/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/05/why-not-use-nlp-to-build-rapport-faster/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 06:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[NLP]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rapport]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[With Joshua I learned that NLP is fine during approach and during seduction, but when you are building rapport with someone that is a better time to drop your guard and also drop your guns. It seems rapport building is the time to connect heart to heart and and be vulnerable, time for utmost sincerity. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Persuade everyone, every time&#8230; maybe not</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/03/when-i-cant-have-what-i-want/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/03/when-i-cant-have-what-i-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 06:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rapport]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[You can convince someone to do anything. You can also convince everyone to something. But I can&#8217;t believe that you can convince everyone to do anything. But with enough time and planning you can convince nearly anyone to do nearly anything. However timing becomes a factor here. That is part of filtering: You have to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How do you know you have rapport</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/02/how-do-you-know-you-have-rapport/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/02/how-do-you-know-you-have-rapport/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 06:21:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Rapport]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://khaostheory.com/?p=158</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When you establish enough rapport people react favorably to your approaches, to seduction, or to persuasion. If they are not being accepting and inviting yet that means you are not quite there yet. The other evident way to know is by your emotional connection. Rapport is a two way road. They will like you, but [...]]]></description>
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