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		<title>Being cool</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/04/24/being-cool/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 23:11:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes, we expect or even fall in love with the characters that people play and forget that they&#8217;re also real people. Popular culture makes us view people by such high standards, always free of trouble and cool all the time. Invariably, we become attracted to that image even though no one is really like that. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Wolves vs Spiders</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/28/wolves-vs-spiders/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2009 07:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wolves: Wolves will eat almost anything they can catch. They usually hunt in packs but sometimes might be on their own. Wolves hunt at any time day or night. Wolves hunt when they are hungry but if they are not successful they can go without food for many days and even weeks. Some wolves are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should I also show up in person?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/15/should-i-also-show-up-in-person/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 00:55:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In some cases it makes sense to go out in the world in person and expose yourself. A professional that visits a trade show, for instance, is doing just that. A promoter that visits a nightclub and introduces himself to people is doing the same. A book author showing up for a book signing is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Multiple web sites</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/14/multiple-web-sites/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 00:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Exposure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Online game]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Make sure to use different web sites, different email addresses and, sometimes, even different names for profiles that have different purposes. Artists have stage names, writers have pen names, you can choose different nick names or &#8220;handles&#8221; to use accordingly. In my case I have a web site and email address with my name. It [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How would someone get in touch?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/13/how-would-someone-get-in-touch/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/13/how-would-someone-get-in-touch/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 00:35:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Online game]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If you have profiles online or your own web sites or blogs, you will get an email from that person interested in talking to you. In general I advise against posting phone numbers because you get all kinds of time-wasting phone calls. If someone responds an email there are several advantages: The person has to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Who will find you?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/12/who-will-find-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 00:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Exposure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Online game]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Who is more likely to find you? I have online profiles related to my interests, lifestyle and sexual preferences. Those that share the same preferences and are curious or engaged in similar interests are most likely to find me than anyone else. When they are using search engines or browsing social networks that I participate [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s better to be found</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/11/its-better-to-be-found/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/11/its-better-to-be-found/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2009 00:22:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is the difference between finding them and having them find you? It&#8217;s a world of difference. By making myself exposed online and approachable that way I filter possible contacts. It saves me a whole lot of work because I tell on my web sites and on-line profiles what I am looking for and how [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You need a practice field</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/10/you-need-a-practice-field/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/10/you-need-a-practice-field/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 16:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Social hub]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[You need to set up the field to practice. If you want to learn how to approach or interact with women for example you must set up situations, or go to places, or join clubs where you will be interacting with women. Ideally do so in a way that you can interact without an obvious [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Where is the best place to find people?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/01/21/where-is-the-best-place-to-find-people/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/01/21/where-is-the-best-place-to-find-people/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 08:50:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Exposure]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://khaostheory.com/?p=104</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The best way is to actively connect with them one way or another. My favorite place for that is the Internet. I post my profile online on dating web sites and social networks, I participate in events and parties, and I join clubs that attract people with similar interests. You can also say that I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Who would be interested on Poliamory?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/01/03/who-would-be-interested-on-an-mltr/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/01/03/who-would-be-interested-on-an-mltr/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2009 06:34:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Exposure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Polyamory & mLTR]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Some people assume that every woman wants or should want nothing else but a long term monogamous relationship. While this is indeed true for most women, it&#8217;s not true of all women, as some women aren&#8217;t cut out for that type of relationship any more than some men are. When a woman gets to know [...]]]></description>
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