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		<title>Domination is NOT abuse</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/12/25/domination-is-not-abuse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 15:07:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People who are practicing BDSM in any of its trillions of forms are doing it voluntarily, for fun. It&#8217;s a way to explore. Everything that happens in a BDSM relationship is consensual; and believe it or not, it&#8217;s not just about the dominant getting what he or she wants &#8211; it&#8217;s more about the submissive [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sex creates Connection</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/12/24/sex-creates-connection/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 17:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A romantic connection (also called pair-bonding) is a deep emotional bond to another individual. The tendency to form a deep emotional bond to another individual is an universal feature of human life. The connections we form to our partners are designed to keep people together. When we form a connection to a partner – we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What is a submissive?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/10/24/what-is-a-submissive/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 03:08:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Submissive&#8221; is a label used to describe a partner who takes the passive, receiving, or obedient role within a sexual context. Here the term submissive typically refers to the partner who accepts the control of, and is obedient to the authority of, her Dominant partner within a sexual experience. The submission of a partner is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fantasies</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/10/03/fantasies/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2011/10/03/fantasies/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2011 04:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you had a chance to try anything one time, what would that be? The question suggests &#8220;trying anything without consequences&#8221; and that is territory of fantasies, sexual in nature or not. The fundamental component of fantasies is that they exist only for their elasticity, their ability to instantly incorporate any new character, image or [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Not just a kinkster</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/10/02/not-really-a-kinkster/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Oct 2011 18:28:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dominance]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://khaostheory.com/?p=486</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Everything I&#8217;ve experienced has led me to believe that when it comes to BDSM, there are two main categories of people: there are kinksters, people who enjoy the lifestyle and find pleasure in certain aspects of it; and then there are a smaller category of people who seek it out because they recognize in themselves [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How I am</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/09/23/how-i-am/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2011/09/23/how-i-am/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Sep 2011 08:58:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. I prove to her that I am someone she can lean on, and depend on. Old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect my women. I believe people play different roles in the relationship. Quick to point out the differences between [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How I became an expert</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/09/20/when-i-became-an-expert/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2011 08:33:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That is something that happens backwards. First I learned a lot of &#8220;stuff&#8221;: Techniques, methods, solutions and protocols. I thought I was very skillful, but the most important was still missing. As I met women that were more experienced, more advanced, and more sensual than I ever seen before, that opened my eyes to a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fear as a limitation</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/09/09/fear-as-a-limitation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Sep 2011 17:23:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fear can prevent someone from moving forward or from trying certain sexual acts. Those fears usually come from unfamiliarity or inexperience, or from bad experiences from the past, or from bad associations that came from watching, reading, or being told that some act is dangerous, painful, unhealthy, demeaning, or humiliating. Those fears commonly cause some [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Shortcut to self-approval</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/11/17/shortcut-to-self-approval/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2010/11/17/shortcut-to-self-approval/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2010 03:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is one very effective shortcut to learn to approve of yourself is to approve of others. Pay attention to what others do and when you see effort, dedication, elegance, or any other great qualities in someone&#8217;s self, or someone&#8217;s work, point at it and tell them how much you appreciate it. When you give [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Drama should be expected</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/11/11/drama-should-be-expected/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Nov 2010 03:47:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Drama accomplishes a lot of things at once. It gets attention, it sends emotions through the body (emotions are highly addictive chemicals), it’s a way to be self-righteous, it’s often fun, it’s interesting and prevents boredom, it gives things meaning&#8230; and on and on. There are a lot of good reasons for drama. But most [...]]]></description>
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