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		<title>A nurturing sadist?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/04/18/654/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2009 02:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A question was asked in a BDSM forum that struck me as somewhat odd. A submissive woman asked if it was possible for a dominant to be both nurturing and sadistic&#8230; Surprisingly, (to me, at least) the overwhelming response was that NO a dominant cannot be both nurturing and sadistic. I&#8217;d say about 85% of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Training a Dom</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/04/13/training-a-dom/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 06:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interesting question posted on FetLife.com: A lot of people talk about training a sub or a slave.. But can you train a Dom? For instance.. Scenario One; A pretty little sub girl meets a vanilla whom she falls in love with, Describes her lifestyle to the vanilla who professes to find it connects with him [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Not really a kinkster</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/04/02/not-really-a-kinkster/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 18:28:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everything I&#8217;ve experienced has led me to believe that when it comes to BDSM, there are two main categories of people: there are kinksters, people who enjoy the lifestyle and find pleasure in certain aspects of it; and then there are a smaller category of people who seek it out because they recognize in themselves [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why some people turn submissive?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/27/why-some-people-turn-submissive/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2009 03:10:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are several aspects to that like the different social roles (alphas, betas, etc), the biological drive, etc. But I think one new aspect is very influential in modern society. I heard from several friends that are Doms and Dominatrix pretty much the same story with little variation: that when someone is in charge and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why is submission so misunderstood?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/25/why-is-submission-so-misunderstood/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 03:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://khaostheory.com/?p=390</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Individuals who submit control of a large percentage of their day-to-day life to a dominant partner, or who submit within a formal set of rules and rituals are sometimes referred to using the term slave, which is distinctly different from the historical use of the term, and the practice of this type of consensual sexual [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What is a submissive?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/24/what-is-a-submissive/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:08:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Submissive&#8221; is a label used to describe a partner who takes the passive, receiving, or obedient role within a sexual context. Here the term submissive typically refers to the partner who accepts the control of, and is obedient to the authority of, her Dominant partner within a sexual experience. The submission of a partner is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A free and adventurous woman</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/22/a-free-and-adventurous-woman/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 02:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If she is already mature and liberated, happily exploring her sensuality, she will appreciate having a partner that is equally open-minded and sophisticated. If she is not quite there yet I can be the person that she can feel comfortable with and trust deeply enough to experiment and not feel judged or inadequate. I learned [...]]]></description>
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		<title>About security and freedom</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/11/about-security-and-freedom/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 16:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Extracted from the article &#8220;The Real Meaning of Security&#8221; by Eve Ensler for Ode Magazine.* Our obsession with protecting ourselves makes us less safe. That&#8217;s the message from Eve Ensler, who travels the globe to end violence against women. I am worried about our single-minded focus on security. I see this word, hear this word, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trust and deep connections</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/08/trust-and-deep-connections/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 03:56:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://khaostheory.com/?p=310</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I appreciate a deeper level of sensual connection. An intense sensual awakening that only happens when lovers trust each other and are engaged in discovering what pleasures them the most, and what pleasures their lover. Every change brings fear and uncertainty. The curiosity and desire for better life and experience is often suppressed by the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The importance of rapport</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/01/31/the-importance-ofrapport-is/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 06:11:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The way I live and love requires a lot of trust. When was the last time you put your safety in the hands of someone else? When was the last time you did it while at the most fragile moments when you are loving, with your guard down, totally vulnerable? I never have to demand [...]]]></description>
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