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	<title>Khaos Theory &#187; Value</title>
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	<description>on attraction, sensuality, and transformation</description>
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		<title>Areté</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2012/05/03/arete/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 03:45:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Value]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the recent hit movie and book “The Hunger Games,” young heroine Katniss is tossed out into a computer-enhanced, forest-like setting and left to defend herself against the elements, as well as other young people intent on killing her. In her attempts to survive, Katniss uses a bow and arrow both to defend herself, and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Be awesome!</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/07/17/be-awesome/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 12:32:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A rather typical result of people&#8217;s lack of culture and depth is an overall dullness so depressing that is has to be overlaid with a veneer of &#8220;style&#8221; to make them acceptable. And that, to anyone who is perceptive of real human values, just makes them all the worse. Now they are not just depressingly [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Women liberation is an illusion</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2011/07/03/women-liberation-is-an-illusion/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 01:36:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Value]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Driven by fashion magazines and porn, millions of women subject themselves to acrobatic exercises at beauty spas to shave their pubic hair. They endure that gynecologic exam routine and leave happy with just a narrow patch (if any) of hair, very nicely called a &#8220;landing strip&#8221;, the harmless euphemism to suggest the destination of our [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trying to impress her</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/11/19/trying-to-impress-her/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2010/11/19/trying-to-impress-her/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2010 23:39:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Social Tactics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Value]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[When a woman get all prepared and dressed up to go to a club, she is not doing it to impress anyone in particular, she is doing it to impress everyone! She is there to impress her friends, everyone else in the club, the bouncers, the bartender, everyone. You walk into the club not particularly [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Beauty is bad measure of attraction</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/09/03/beauty-is-bad-measure-of-attraction/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2010/09/03/beauty-is-bad-measure-of-attraction/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 17:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[For a while I have seen a  top model and, from a physical point-of-view it was great. But I was not attracted to her in the same ways I have been attracted to other women that I have met. I did not expect to feel that way while I was with her, or even today, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why is mentorship part of my relationships?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/10/05/why-is-mentorship-part-of-my-relationships/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/10/05/why-is-mentorship-part-of-my-relationships/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 17:26:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I believe that coming into a relationship with just a romantic component is what most people do, and that is one reason those relationships tend to not last, and end bitterly. A strong relationship must be based on other components as well. I found out that a very strong component is mutual teaching. A mentor/apprentice [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Age gaps</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/04/17/age-gaps/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 01:21:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I find it interesting that while many people agree that generally speaking, the man in a relationship should be &#8220;older&#8221; than the female, there is still such distaste for larger age disparities in relationships. Strangely enough, there are even rules about how to calculate the age that is &#8220;too old&#8221; or &#8220;too young&#8221; for you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;I&#8217;m a scary judge of talent&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/19/i-am-a-scary-judge-of-value/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/19/i-am-a-scary-judge-of-value/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 05:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I loved that phrase from Al Pacino&#8217;s character Walter Burke, in the movie The Recruit. I am a very good judge of value. After a few years studying human behavior and practicing, interviewing people for jobs and gigs, negotiating, and handling the volatile material that composes human interactions, I became very sensitive and capable of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why is value misunderstood?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/18/why-is-value-misunderstood/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/18/why-is-value-misunderstood/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 05:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Value]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://khaostheory.com/?p=355</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[For two reasons. The first is that most people confuse their self worth with their value to others, and don&#8217;t know that self worth comes from the inside. They look at their check book, their car, their house, and their relationships, and think that they are worth proportionally to those things they have. It would [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What value is</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/16/what-value-is/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/16/what-value-is/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 05:16:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Value]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Value, for the purpose of the discussions in this blog, is the measure of how desirable, important, useful, or meritorious that person is from someone else&#8217;s point of view. A persons value is the perceived worth in usefulness or importance to the beholder; utility or merit. The key word here is perceived. No value exists [...]]]></description>
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