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		<title>Beauty is bad measure of attraction</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/09/03/beauty-is-bad-measure-of-attraction/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 17:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For a while I have seen a  top model and, from a physical point-of-view it was great. But I was not attracted to her in the same ways I have been attracted to other women that I have met. I did not expect to feel that way while I was with her, or even today, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Women liberation is an illusion</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2010/07/03/women-liberation-is-an-illusion/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 01:36:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Driven by fashion magazines and porn, millions of women subject themselves to acrobatic exercises at beauty spas to shave their pubic hair. They endure that gynecologic exam routine and leave happy with just a narrow patch (if any) of hair, very nicely called a &#8220;landing strip&#8221;, the harmless euphemism to suggest the destination of our [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why is mentorship part of my relationships?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 17:26:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I believe that coming into a relationship with just a romantic component is what most people do, and that is one reason those relationships tend to not last, and end bitterly. A strong relationship must be based on other components as well. I found out that a very strong component is mutual teaching. A mentor/apprentice [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Age gaps</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/04/17/age-gaps/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 01:21:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I find it interesting that while many people agree that generally speaking, the man in a relationship should be &#8220;older&#8221; than the female, there is still such distaste for larger age disparities in relationships. Strangely enough, there are even rules about how to calculate the age that is &#8220;too old&#8221; or &#8220;too young&#8221; for you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;I&#8217;m a scary judge of talent&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/19/i-am-a-scary-judge-of-value/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 05:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I loved that phrase from Al Pacino&#8217;s character Walter Burke, in the movie The Recruit. I am a very good judge of value. After a few years studying human behavior and practicing, interviewing people for jobs and gigs, negotiating, and handling the volatile material that composes human interactions, I became very sensitive and capable of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why is value misunderstood?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/18/why-is-value-misunderstood/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 05:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For two reasons. The first is that most people confuse their self worth with their value to others, and don&#8217;t know that self worth comes from the inside. They look at their check book, their car, their house, and their relationships, and think that they are worth proportionally to those things they have. It would [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The most valuable people I know</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/17/the-most-valuable-people-i-know/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:19:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For me people have value in the direct proportion to how much they can change my life; for better of course. People that could teach me valuable lessons, people that could show me how to live better, make money more efficiently, or have fun at higher levels, those were the most valuable people I ever [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What value is</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/16/what-value-is/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2009 05:16:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Value, for the purpose of the discussions in this blog, is the measure of how desirable, important, useful, or meritorious that person is from someone else&#8217;s point of view. A persons value is the perceived worth in usefulness or importance to the beholder; utility or merit. The key word here is perceived. No value exists [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What they want</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/05/having-fun/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/05/having-fun/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 23:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People want to make money, they want to learn, and they want to have fun. Not necessarily on that order. When you have an emotional connection with a woman, help her make more money, teach her how to live better, and show her how to have more fun and more pleasure, she will surely be [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Value</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/21/value/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2009 03:38:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nobody learns how to judge value in school. Your family didn&#8217;t teach you that either. It&#8217;s very important to have a good sense of value to detect opportunities. If you can see through the surface (appearance, cash) you may find out that a person can give you opportunities, opening doors, sharing contacts, finding jobs or [...]]]></description>
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