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	<description>on attraction, sensuality, and transformation</description>
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		<title>When there is no attraction</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/23/when-there-is-no-attraction/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 03:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[One-itis]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[What if a woman is definitely not interested in my lifestyle? This is so much about filtering! Naturally there are many women out there that I admire, that I find sexy, smart, talented, wonderful and desirable and our lives will never share the same path. The secret is understand and accept that you can&#8217;t have [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;I&#8217;m a scary judge of talent&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/19/i-am-a-scary-judge-of-value/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 05:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Value]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I loved that phrase from Al Pacino&#8217;s character Walter Burke, in the movie The Recruit. I am a very good judge of value. After a few years studying human behavior and practicing, interviewing people for jobs and gigs, negotiating, and handling the volatile material that composes human interactions, I became very sensitive and capable of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Kat Williams on dating</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/03/07/kat-williams-on-dating/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 23:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://khaostheory.com/?p=302</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRb5u7QbMLU Tell your friends:]]></description>
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		<title>How would someone get in touch?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/13/how-would-someone-get-in-touch/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/13/how-would-someone-get-in-touch/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 00:35:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Exposure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Online game]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If you have profiles online or your own web sites or blogs, you will get an email from that person interested in talking to you. In general I advise against posting phone numbers because you get all kinds of time-wasting phone calls. If someone responds an email there are several advantages: The person has to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Who will find you?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/12/who-will-find-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 00:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Exposure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Online game]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Who is more likely to find you? I have online profiles related to my interests, lifestyle and sexual preferences. Those that share the same preferences and are curious or engaged in similar interests are most likely to find me than anyone else. When they are using search engines or browsing social networks that I participate [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s better to be found</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/11/its-better-to-be-found/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/11/its-better-to-be-found/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2009 00:22:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Exposure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[What is the difference between finding them and having them find you? It&#8217;s a world of difference. By making myself exposed online and approachable that way I filter possible contacts. It saves me a whole lot of work because I tell on my web sites and on-line profiles what I am looking for and how [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Persuade everyone, every time&#8230; maybe not</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/03/when-i-cant-have-what-i-want/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/02/03/when-i-cant-have-what-i-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 06:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rapport]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[You can convince someone to do anything. You can also convince everyone to something. But I can&#8217;t believe that you can convince everyone to do anything. But with enough time and planning you can convince nearly anyone to do nearly anything. However timing becomes a factor here. That is part of filtering: You have to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What if I really like a woman and she is not into Poliamory?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/01/06/what-if-i-really-like-a-woman-and-she-is-not-into-mltrs/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/01/06/what-if-i-really-like-a-woman-and-she-is-not-into-mltrs/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 07:31:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Polyamory & mLTR]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I took some time thinking about it as I knew I was taking an important decision in life. I knew that I had come to the cross-roads in my life and I would have to choose a path. Whichever the path I knew I would be losing something. I know that during my life I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why do I prefer Polyamory?</title>
		<link>http://khaostheory.com/2009/01/02/why-do-i-prefer-mltr/</link>
		<comments>http://khaostheory.com/2009/01/02/why-do-i-prefer-mltr/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2009 06:17:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khaos</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Filtering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Polyamory & mLTR]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I believe the most important reason I prefer Polyamory is that I don&#8217;t need to lie to myself and I don&#8217;t need to lie to others. In the past, specially during my first marriage, I felt all the guilt of wanting to be with other women and lying to my wife, while other times being [...]]]></description>
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