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Insanity scares me

Sunday, April 12th, 2009

insanityInsanity scares me.

I lost several friends to insanity this far.

It’s more friends than I have lost to car accidents. More than I lost to cancer.

I am at that time in life where I am not old enough to have lost many friends to aging, but old enough to have many friends already. However I have lost less friends to crime, murder, aging, accidents, addiction or war than I have lost to insanity.

The first one was a school friend that took his own life at 13 years old. Another killed his girlfriend in a rage of jealousy and killed himself, leaving a dramatic message on the walls, written with blood and lipstick. Her blood and her lipstick. Another friend I lost to religious fanaticism, then another became incoherent and violent and soon got committed to an institution.

I guess it scares me so much because there is nothing I can do or say to them that will bring them back to “being in contact with reality and normalcy”. I was so painful to see my childhood friend talking to himself on the streets, preaching to the traffic on the streets, distant, incomprehensible, just the body of my friend while his mind, and the personality, that I knew and missed so much wasn’t there anymore.

I sometimes think that it is some kind of Darwinian selection process that cuts off those that are not so well adapted to modern life out of it. But that idea is also disturbing. I don’t understand it well, I just suffer.

Tulio, Luis, Marcelo, Nani, Vic, Karen, Caio…

I think I just miss my friends.   :-(

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Having a curious attitude

Saturday, March 14th, 2009

One can only learn by deliberately seeking knowledge and practice, instead of waiting to figure it our with time. Seduction, sensuality, and relationships are not things you should learn by trial and error. You also can’t develop it very much naturally. Many people say “I like to have my relationships develop naturally” and they are usually the ones working very hard all the time, trying to fix and manage their relationships!

I constantly identify aspects I want to develop in my life, then I read about them, find ways to improve them, and practice a new way to live and handle that part of my life.

My ways of persuading and attracting people are uncommon, but effective. I didn’t learn them reading magazines or going to college for years. They come to be from years of experience negotiating, persuading, interviewing, and studying with masters of influence: writers, investigators, salesmen, politicians, magicians, public speakers, pick up artists. They all have one thing in common: If they don’t persuade they don’t get what they want.

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Trust and deep connections

Sunday, March 8th, 2009

2128802085_ae8c876ff7_20080916105626_510jpgI appreciate a deeper level of sensual connection. An intense sensual awakening that only happens when lovers trust each other and are engaged in discovering what pleasures them the most, and what pleasures their lover.

Every change brings fear and uncertainty. The curiosity and desire for better life and experience is often suppressed by the fear of delving into uncharted territory. The idea of having someone more experienced guiding along the way tends to be very attractive for that very simple reason.

I found a path to it through sensual domination. It requires a lot of trust. To win my submissive’s mind, body and soul, I know I must first win her trust. I will show my submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. I must also show her that my guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that I am a man she can learn from, and trust my direction.

Above all else I cherish my women, in the knowledge that the gift they give me is the greatest of all. As a stern and demanding Dominant I take full advantage of the power given to me, but know how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.

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Having fun

Thursday, March 5th, 2009

People want to make money, they want to learn, and they want to have fun. Not necessarily on that order. When you have an emotional connection with a woman, help her make more money, teach her how to live better, and show her how to have more fun and more pleasure, she will surely be considering you great company to keep.

Also, if you choose your women very well, they would also be teaching you about the same things, wouldn’t they?

Most people lead boring lives.

Not so much stupid, as mind-dumbingly boring. I don’t hate everyone. I just find most people boring. Uninteresting. Predictable. I don’t know why, I’m not a psychologist, but I tend to spend most conversations waiting for the other person to finish his text-book database of opening conversations.

So when you do anything unexpected, anything out of the ordinary, you automatically get upgraded to the “top 1%” just because the other 99% are simple doing nothing with their lives other than working, watching TV, procreating, and accumulating debt.

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What is mentorship?

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

Mentorship refers to a developmental relationship in which a more experienced person helps a less experienced person, referred to as a protégé  apprentice, or mentee, develop in a specified capacity.

I believe that most people want to be led, and that if they are being led in a way that increases or improves their reality for the better, that they will willingly follow.

Mentorship can be the fastest and most accessible shortcut to success in anything. A mentor can help you avoid whatever may slow you down or waste your time. A mentor can show you the best direction and encourage you to get there sooner.

A mentor may also help you with his own connections, opening doors you couldn’t open on your own. And most of all, a mentor can tell you about his own mistakes so you don’t need to repeat them.

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