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A free and adventurous woman

Sunday, March 22nd, 2009

2128802035_417998ec32_20080916105507_510jpgIf she is already mature and liberated, happily exploring her sensuality, she will appreciate having a partner that is equally open-minded and sophisticated. If she is not quite there yet I can be the person that she can feel comfortable with and trust deeply enough to experiment and not feel judged or inadequate.

I learned and saw by experience that when a woman sees that you care about her and that you are sincere, when she trusts that you will not judge her or hurt her, if she believes she can trust your guidance, she will turn into a sexual being beyond your wildest dreams. All that stuff you saw in the porn movies and though you would never find a partner to do those crazy things with… she will do all that and much more.

Women love sex, certainly more than men love sex. A liberated woman with an appetite to satisfy her needs and desires becomes a monster you can’t feed if you don’t put plenty of attention to it.

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Products I recommend to girls

Saturday, March 21st, 2009

Here are a few products and services I use to recommend to girls. Women are usually surprised with those so it’s safe to say guys will be even more surprised. Enjoy!

The Gynotex Soft Tampons are hygienic and separately packed. The purpose of the tampon is to close off the cervix. This makes intercourse during the period possible and hygienic. The Gynotex Soft Tampon is a comfort for working women as well as for those active in sport. The tampon is also very useful for a visit at sauna and pool.

If you want to play rough, heal quick, then play some more. Wayne’s Whoop-Ass Healing Balm was designed to rapidly repair bruised and rough, raw skin, with this perfect blend of key active ingredients is anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, antiseptic, healing and refreshing. Apply a thin layer immediately after “rough play”, and as often as needed, for best results.

I hate condoms! I detest condoms! I really had a very difficult time with them… until not too long ago LifeStyles SKINS was introduced to the market. These condoms are really fabulous and the sensation is really close to using nothing at all.

If you want to spice up your pad, add some flavor to your play area, here is a great source of sex furniture! Liberator also has some very cool toys and other interesting things. But in my opinion their furniture is the most interesting.

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Sensual awakening

Monday, March 9th, 2009

1298349_20090104173126_510jpg1Sensual awakening releases the most intense energy and source of physical comfort and happiness there is. Nothing (even drugs?) can release tension and stress and improve your well being like sexual satisfaction.

It seems to me that if you look at all the problems that affect human beings, sexual needs and relationship dysfunctions seem to be on the root of nearly everything.

If you have good relationships and satisfy your sexual needs frequently what else is left to worry about in life? Oh, there is money…

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Fantasies

Wednesday, January 28th, 2009

If you had a chance to try anything one time, what would that be?

The question suggests “trying anything without consequences” and that is territory of fantasies, sexual in nature or not. The fundamental component of fantasies is that they exist only for their elasticity, their ability to instantly incorporate any new character, image or idea – or, as in dreams, to which they bear so close a relationship – to contain conflicting ideas simultaneously. They expand, heighten, distort or exaggerate reality, taking one further, faster in the direction in which the unashamed unconscious already knows it wants to go. They present the astonished self with the incredible, the opportunity to entertain the impossible*.

One of the greatest discoveries I had during these last few years was to learn that women also have and express their fantasies in ways that are more rich and interesting than men. Nacy Friday’s book and some others were like finding a little window with a view to another world.

* Shamelessly adapted from My Secret Garden, by Nancy Friday

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Lack of real sexual education

Thursday, January 22nd, 2009

Sexual repression is nothing new. Many societies around the world place restrictions on the sex lives of their citizens, often with heavy consequences should an individual deviate from what is considered acceptable in that society. Adulterers, unwed lovers, homosexuals, and even people caught in the act of masturbating have been institutionalized, tortured, mutilated, or even executed for committing acts of sexual gratification.

While we no longer hang people for having sex out of wedlock or clamp spiked rings over the penises of masturbators, we can still hear the harpies of morality screeching their anti-sex agendas from pulpits and campaign platforms across the country. Concerned citizens boycott stores that carry literature about certain forms of sexual activity and lobby to squash anything remotely resembling sexual education in our schools. Television and radio producers are fined and chastised if their programming is deemed to be too racy for those moral-minded, sensitive American audiences. Adult-oriented establishments are greatly restricted in their activities, watched like hawks, and heavily fined or shut down completely.

Even in the privacy of their own homes, citizens are strongly discouraged against practicing any type of sexual activity outside of mundane and marital pairings. So it comes as no surprise that real, practical sexual education is not common.

I usually ask why is it that we are thought how to floss, how to drive, how to hold a fork, and how to do many other pedestrian things – but when it comes to learn how to be a good lover, a good friend, and a good parent, things that are decisive for our happiness and the happiness of those around us, we are generally left to our own devices, and to trial and error.

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What is the learning path to this lifestyle?

Sunday, January 18th, 2009

I can’t suggest any learning path other than my own. I can look back and see the lessons I learned, the mistakes I made, and the education I gathered and I can draw some suggestions from that. Please take it for what it is worth: A suggestion drawn from my personal experience.

I read a lot! Even when I didnt have any money to buy books I used to visit public libraries and read anything that could show me how to understand people, psychology, anthropology, history, philosophy.

I went to swingers clubs and kinky clubs and talked to people. I had the courage to ask those that were in those lifestyles for a long time for advice. I listened and observed.

But most important of all, I practiced! When the opportunity came to be in relationships with interesting women, who were open-minded, adventurous, and curious like me I went straight to the point and told them I wanted to learn and experienced everything I could, and asked them to join me on that discovery. When you tell that honestly, open your heart and show that you really want to become a better lover, a better friend, and a better man, what woman would refuse to play along?

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